Mother's Day is over - get back to work!

I almost had an entire night of uninterrupted sleep. Boy came into the guest room where I was dead to the world after he couldn't rouse his Daddy from the marital bed.
"Mommy."
I dragged myself out of bed, followed the little striped body back to his room and hoisted him back into his Big Boy Bed. He snuggled beneath his comforter and into his pillows, clutching his sippy cup of water. As usual, I checked to see the status of his diaper. A little pee, nothing to drag myself out of bed to get a fresh diaper for. He sucked down his water and then fell to slumbers, his small feel shoved into my rolls of fat for warmth. After a couple of minutes, I got up, went to the kitchen to get him another half cup of water to put in his room before going back to bed.
Around six am, he came in, found my back to him then went in search of Daddy. He apparently crawled into bed with Husband and snuggled into him. Then after a few minutes of conversation, went to sleep until about 730am when he announced to Husband, "Wet." Not just "my diaper is wet, Daddy, please rectify the situation" wet but "my diaper is hypersaturated and your bed is now wet, Daddy." Boy didn't exactly scamper off his soggy place but lay there for a few more minutes before clambering off the bed with Husband feeling the grim truth.
I heard them awaken, Boy asking plaintively for more soy milk and Thomas the Tank Engine with Husband saying, "Shhhh, Mommy is still asleep" and closing the door to the guest room. Even though Husband for some reason will close the hall door when I'm asleep in the master bedroom or Boy's room (which share a common wall with the living room so I hear everything anyhow), he doesn't when I am slumbering in the guest room. So hearing Boy shout "Thom-US!" at the top of his tremble voice echoes down the hall and through the hollow core door the room.
Half asleep and half awake, I managed to get to quarter to ten before rousing myself to get ready for the day. In 45 minutes, Husband and I managed to get clean and fresh plus getting Boy into some nice clothes before heading out the door to join some friends for an impromptu Mother's Day brunch at a restaurant. Afterwards, I headed home to drop my boys off and headed off to the movies so I could do what I love best: lose myself in someone else's world.
In a former life, I went to the movies frequently. I worked retail so I could go during the bargain matinee shows and embrace the world on film. Living in LA is surreal in the fact you can be watching a Woody Allen flick on DVD (or at the time I lived there, on VHS) and the next day, be asking Diane Keaten if she would like to have her purchase wrapped. After awhile, you learned to just treat the people you just paid $6 to see on the screen (this was a long time ago) like the ten other people who you helped before them.
The theatre was holding 20 people for the movie (in the top ten ranked this weekend so it wasn't a stinker flick) when the lights went down. For two hours, I enjoyed myself immensely. The reviews for the movie weren't great but it was one I had been wanting to see for awhile. It's one we'll own on DVD simply because I really enjoyed it. Sorry, Mick Lasalle, I know you didn't like it but I did. We agree to disagree.
Afterwards, I picked up groceries at Safeway then headed home. Husband took us out to dinner at a burger restaurant where Boy managed to run off a few times making dinner as usual a challenge. We came home and life went back to its usual Sunday night rituals:
I gathered all the recycling in the house and put it on the curb in its green box.
I shredded documents and got all the brown paper bags of recycling to the curb.
I got the yard waste in the big green rolling bin to the curb.
And I gathered all the trash and dirty diapers and put it in the trash can. And rolled them to the curb.
That's when Husband asked if I needed any help.
As he does every week.
When I was eight months pregnant, I waddled out the door every Sunday afternoon, taking all the recycling and trash to the curb to the astonishment of my neighbours. They couldn't believe that this pregnant woman was doing all this without her husband's help. Of course, Husband was with a company that sent his ass out of town every week so most of the time, he wasn't home. And when he was, it wasn't something he really thought about or was thorough about. (We'd end up with full bags of trash in the house and the following week, he'd gripe about how our trash can was too full - duh.) I think the one time he took trash out during my pregnancy was the day before I went in for my C section.
So as much as the holiday gets the Hallmark moment gloss of being a day where Mom is queen, life isn't that way at all. There are not a lot of breakfasts in bed and dinners out. Most of us get an awkward brunch with our Mom and Mother in law as they try to decide who is the better Grandparent. While they decide where your kid's propensity for flicking mashed potatoes at them is from, you're wondering what to make for dinner that night. And you are making dinner that night. It's not your husband throwing a filet mignon on the barbeque and baked potatoes with sour cream and chives, it's you figuring out if you made lemon chicken Friday or was it the week before?
Mother's Day is over. I'm back to work.